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Why You Shouldn't Row Alone: The Role of Support In Your Transformation

If you were to find yourself in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean, alone in a rowboat, with nothing but open water stretching endlessly in every direction, how long do you think you’d last?

Even the strongest, most determined person would struggle—physically, mentally, and emotionally—without someone else to share the burden, provide reassurance, and keep them going when exhaustion sets in.

Peter Sage and Lee James didn’t row across the Atlantic alone. They leaned on each other, alternating shifts so one could rest while the other rowed. They shared the weight of the challenge, encouraged each other through the toughest moments, and reminded one another why they started when doubt crept in.

And yet, how often do we try to "row alone" in life?

The Lone Wolf Trap: Why We Struggle to Ask for Help

For high-achievers—those who are driven, responsible, and used to being the person others rely on—there’s often an unspoken belief that we should be able to figure everything out alone.

You’ve built a strong career or business. You’re competent, resourceful, and the one people turn to for advice and support. But when it comes to your own challenges, feeling stuck, or not knowing what’s next, it’s easy to assume that you need to figure it out on your own.

Maybe you tell yourself:
✔ “I should be able to handle this—I’ve done harder things before.”
✔ “I don’t want to burden anyone else with my problems.”
✔ “I’ll figure it out eventually—I just need more time.”

But the truth is, navigating big life transitions—whether it’s redefining your career, rediscovering your purpose, or stepping into something new—isn’t meant to be a solo journey.

Who’s in Your Boat? The Power of the Right Support

Peter and Lee’s success wasn’t just about their own willpower. They had a team supporting them from the shore—experts tracking their route, monitoring conditions, and providing guidance when storms hit. Even though they were physically on the ocean, they weren’t truly alone.

And that’s exactly what most of us need in life:
✔ Someone who can see the bigger picture when we’re too deep in the challenge to gain perspective.
✔ Someone who reminds us why we started when fear or doubt makes us want to quit.
✔ Someone who holds us accountable to our goals, so we don’t drift off course.

Having the right people around you isn’t a weakness—it’s a strategy for success.

How to Find the Right Support for Your Journey

Not all support is created equal. Here’s how to ensure you’re surrounding yourself with the right people who will help you move forward:

1. Seek Guidance from Someone Who Has Walked the Path

Just as Peter and Lee had expert navigators guiding their route, you need someone who has successfully navigated major transitions and personal reinvention—someone who doesn’t just give advice but has lived the transformation you’re seeking.

2. Surround Yourself with People Who Lift You Higher

The company you keep can either reinforce your doubts or challenge you to grow. Find a community that inspires you, encourages you to dream bigger, and reminds you that your best days aren’t behind you—they’re ahead.

3. Be Willing to Receive Help

This one is key. If you’re used to being the strong one, the one who always has the answers, it can feel uncomfortable to admit that you need support. But true strength isn’t about going it alone—it’s about having the courage to receive help when it matters most.

Your Next Step: Who’s Rowing with You?

So, what’s your row? What’s the challenge that, if you conquered it, would change everything?

And more importantly—who’s in the boat with you?

If you’re tired of rowing alone and are ready to find the clarity, confidence, and support to create your next chapter, I’d love to help you navigate the journey.

Because the truth is—you were never meant to do this alone.